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─────── September 10, 2026 ───────

Welcome to Decaf!
Today’s edition covers some intense topics for young hearts.

Lindsay Clancy’s trial has been on front pages for weeks, and your kids have likely heard about it. We’d be doing you a disservice if we shied away from heavy headlines, because Jesus is strong enough to carry our world’s weightiest burdens. We trust your discernment in sharing stories like this with your children.

This week’s Decaf is brought to you by our friends at FamilyLife and The Good Book.

Today’s story was taken from The Pour Over’s September 7th email and rewritten at a 7th-grade reading level.

QUOTE OF THE WEEK
“However dark the night, however dim our hopes, the light will always follow darkness.”
Louis Zamperini

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U.S. NEWS

Clancy Case

Lindsay Clancy’s six-week murder trial ended without a decision.

Lindsay Clancy is a 36-year-old former nurse. She admitted to killing her three young children before attempting to kill herself in 2023. But Ms. Clancy pleaded “not guilty” to three first-degree murder charges.

Her lawyers argued that she can’t be held responsible for the murders because she had a rare mental disorder called postpartum psychosis. Postpartum psychosis (PPP) can cause people to see or hear things, become fearful without a good reason, or change their behavior. In severe cases, people with PPP might try to hurt themselves or their kids.

The prosecution argued that she knew what she was doing, knew it was wrong, and that the murders were planned.

All 12 people on the jury had to agree to reach a verdict. They debated for seven days, but one thought she should be blamed for the murders, while the other 11 had doubts. After three failed attempts to agree, the judge declared a mistrial. That means it ended without a decision… no “guilty” or “not guilty.”

If the jury had found her guilty, Clancy could have gone to prison for the rest of her life. If they had found her not guilty, she still wouldn’t have gone free. She would likely have been sent to a psychiatric hospital, similar to where she is now. 

Clancy will wait at the hospital while prosecutors decide their next move. They can take the case to court again, make a deal, or drop the charges. (See this guide on what happens after a mistrial).

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CHRISTIAN PERSPECTIVE
The world can be a scary place, but even when things look dark, Christians have hope. Jesus, the servant of God, didn’t do any harm, and He suffered on our behalf so that we can live in the Lord’s peaceful presence forever. Knowing this truth, we can mourn with victims, pray for our enemies, and tell other people about the hope we have.

“Yet he himself bore our sicknesses, and he carried our pains; but we in turn regarded him stricken, struck down by God, and afflicted. But he was pierced because of our rebellion, crushed because of our iniquities; punishment for our peace was on him, and we are healed by his wounds.”
Isaiah 53:4-5 (CSB) (read full passage)

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Ask your kids what they have already heard about this story.
This story is heavy and hard in so many different ways. The details of the murder are terrible, and the case raises tough questions about mental health and justice.

Before diving in with your kids, learn what’s weighing on them. As you name specific feelings and mourn together, remember: there is no pain, no darkness, with which our Sinless Savior is not familiar.

“For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet he did not sin. Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need” (Hebrews 4:15-16 NIV).

What gospel lesson can be taught through this story?
Our unbelieving neighbors don’t have an answer that explains or overcomes evil. But our faith says that wickedness runs right through each of us and holds sway in our world (1 John 5:19); it’s a result of our rebellion from our Maker (Colossians 1:21); and our Creator Himself has disarmed evil by offering His Son (Colossians 2:15).

While we still feel the pain of sin, its time is almost up. Our mission invites us into Spirit-empowered joy that’s rooted not in our world’s circumstances, but in an unshakeable hope.

READ | REFLECT | RESPOND

  • Have your kids write down one or two emotions this story raises in them, then ask them to find two passages of Scripture that address those hurts. (Check out the concordance that’s in the back of most Bibles for help!)

  • Memorize Isaiah 53:5, “But he was pierced because of our rebellion, crushed because of our iniquities; punishment for our peace was on him, and we are healed by his wounds” (CSB).

  • Pray with us: God in Heaven, why did You stand back in the moment of tragedy? Why did You linger so far away? Darkness and gloom have settled; where is the promised light? To You alone, Our Lord, we cry for help. Heal our hurting, broken world. Heal those traumatized by this tragedy, beaten down by the wrongness of the world. Draw near to those who lost what cannot be restored; steady those unsettled by sorrow. In their souls’ raging storm, draw them into refuge and speak Your words of life. To You alone, Our Lord, we cry for help. Heal our hurting, broken world. You alone, O Lord, turn mourning into dancing; You exchange funeral attire for wedding clothes; You swap grief for glory. So we will not grieve as others who have no hope; we will continually come to the Father whose compassion and knowledge and power far outweighs our own, and whose presence clings tightly in heaviest grief. Amen.

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